Anti-Therapist Unleashed
  • Home
  • Journal Unleashed
  • Letters
  • Subscribe Substack
  • Contact
Select Page
Friendship, Dual Relationships, and cPTSD: What If Ethics Isn’t the Problem, But the Frame Is?

Friendship, Dual Relationships, and cPTSD: What If Ethics Isn’t the Problem, But the Frame Is?

by The Anti-Therapist | Jun 14, 2025 | Journal Unleashed: Reflections, Relational Healing, Therapy Wounds and Repair

This is the truth without the clinical filter. Artificial relationships don’t heal attachment wounds. Let’s go straight to the thing people are afraid to say out loud… Sometimes, the most healing thing a therapist or healer could offer a trauma survivor isn’t just...
Letter To My Client: You Don’t Have to Leave to Stop Pretending

Letter To My Client: You Don’t Have to Leave to Stop Pretending

by The Anti-Therapist | Jun 13, 2025 | Journal Unleashed: Reflections, Relational Healing, Therapy Letters, Therapy Wounds and Repair

Dear Client, I see you. Not the “functional” version of you. Not the polished, productive, regulated you. I see the aching, hungry, uncertain you. The one trying to hold it all…the hope, the disappointment, the longing, and the unbearable grief of never having been...
Letter To My Client: I Can’t Give You What You Deserve

Letter To My Client: I Can’t Give You What You Deserve

by The Anti-Therapist | Jun 7, 2025 | Journal Unleashed: Reflections, Therapy Letters, Therapy Wounds and Repair

Dear Client,   You sent me a text message that wasn’t a question or a request. It was a bid for connection, a quiet request. And it was a real moment when you shared something with me that said, “I’m still here. I need to matter. I need to know you see me and...
Letter to My Therapist: When a Text Gets Left on Read

Letter to My Therapist: When a Text Gets Left on Read

by The Anti-Therapist | Jun 5, 2025 | Journal Unleashed: Reflections, Power and Systems in Mental Health, Therapy Letters, Therapy Wounds and Repair

Dear Therapist, Can we talk about something as small as no response to a text? This can feel like a sucker punch to the soul, putting it mildly. The Silence That Echoes It’s not because I’m fragile, but because when you’ve lived through years of emotional neglect or...
Letter To My Client: The Healing You Asked For Was Never Too Much

Letter To My Client: The Healing You Asked For Was Never Too Much

by The Anti-Therapist | Jun 3, 2025 | Journal Unleashed: Reflections, Power and Systems in Mental Health, Relational Healing, Therapy Letters, Therapy Wounds and Repair

Dear Client,   Your words are a testament to the harm that can happen in spaces that promise healing but too often end up replicating the very wounds they claim to treat.    When the Healing Space Becomes Another Wound   I hear you naming how therapy...
Letter To My Therapist: When Therapy Reenacts The Wound

Letter To My Therapist: When Therapy Reenacts The Wound

by The Anti-Therapist | May 9, 2025 | Journal Unleashed: Reflections, Relational Healing, Therapy Letters

Dear Therapist,   I’ve been trying to find the words for something that lives deeper than frustration or unmet needs. It’s not just about what therapy doesn’t give me. It’s about what it takes me back to.   The very structure of therapy, the frame, the...
Next Entries »

Recent Posts

  • You Don’t Have to Become One to Be Whole
  • WTF Happened to Friends? Relational Starvation, Pajamas on the Couch, and the Lie That Texting Is Enough
  • When Models Replace People: Relational Accountability, Phase Dogma, and the Quiet Harm of Legacy Authority in Trauma & Dissociation Care
  • When Influence, Humor, and “Expertise” Collide: A Plural Clinician’s Critique
  • Healing The Holiday Hangover… When the Exhaustion Hits Hard

Recent Comments

No comments to show.
Dive Deeper...Subscribe to Substack

Privacy Policy & Terms

Disclaimer